Family Voices by Harold Pinter
"Family Voices" is a radio play by Harold Pinter that explores complex familial relationships through a psychological and memory-driven narrative. The play features the interwoven voices of a young man and a woman identified as his mother, alongside a third voice, presumably his father, who appears later in the narrative. Through a series of monologues, the young man shares his experiences living in a large city while expressing a blend of contentment and anxiety about his surroundings and relationships with others, including his landlady and her family. In contrast, the mother reveals her feelings of abandonment and concern, questioning her son's silence and expressing a desire for a closer connection.
Pinter's use of radio as a medium allows for a focus on sound and language, enhancing the emotional weight of the characters' voices and the subtleties of their interactions. The play reflects themes of love, estrangement, and the search for identity within familial contexts, ultimately leaving questions about the nature of their relationships and the impact of absence. "Family Voices" serves as a poignant examination of the complexities of family dynamics, characterized by Pinter's distinctive style that merges absurdity with psychological realism. Through its haunting dialogue and evocative imagery, the play resonates with listeners, inviting them to reflect on their own familial connections and experiences.
Family Voices by Harold Pinter
First published: 1981, in Complete Works: Four
First produced: 1981, at the National Theatre, London
Type of plot: Psychological
Time of work: The 1980’s
Locale: England
Principal Characters:
Voice 1 , a young manVoice 2 , a womanVoice 3 , another man
The Play
Family Voices is a radio play which interweaves the voice of a young man with that of a woman who seems to be his mother. The young man makes fourteen speeches; the mother, twelve. Near the end of the play, a third voice, that of a man who seems to be the young man’s father, enters and makes two speeches.
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The young man’s opening monologue appears to be a letter written to his mother. (It ends: “And so I shall end this letter to you, my dear mother, with my love.”) The audience learns that he is enjoying being alone in an “enormous city”; indeed, twice he states, “I am having a very nice time.” He reports that his room is “extremely pleasant” and attributes this pleasant atmosphere to his seventy-year-old landlady, Mrs. Withers, “an utterly charming person, of impeccable credentials,” with whom he regularly drinks.
In the mother’s opening monologue, the playgoers realize that she has not received the young man’s letter—nor any communication from him. “Where are you?” she inquires. “Why do you never write? . . . Have you changed your address?” After inquiring if the young man has met any nice boys or girls and cautioning him against mixing with “the other sort,” the mother imagines living “happily ever after” with the young man and his future “young wife.” She indicates that she wrote him three months before, telling of his father’s death, and asks if he received this letter.
The young man’s tone has changed in his second monologue. “I’m not at all sure that I like the people in this house, apart from Mrs. Withers and her daughter, Jane,” he begins. The young man is wary of an old, bald man who retires early, a woman in a red dress, and a big man with black hair on the backs of his hands. He reports hearing whispers from the other rooms and steps on the stairs, but he dares not investigate these sounds.
In his next four speeches (monologues 3-6), the young man reports his discoveries regarding the three people he has feared. The old, bald man who retires early is Benjamin Withers, probably Mrs. Withers’s husband. The woman in the red dress is Lady Withers. She asks to be called Lally and invites the young man to take tea in an immense room with dark blue walls. During tea, fifteen-year-old Jane Withers sits with her feet in the young man’s lap. As buns begin to be consumed rapidly by Lady Withers and languidly by Jane, the young man finds that his bun is “rock solid.” When he bites into it, it jumps out of his mouth, and into his lap, where it is caught and expertly juggled by Jane’s feet.
He next describes two actions of the big man with the black hair, whose name is Riley. He reports that while he is lying in his bath, Riley enters and says that he has chastised and dismissed two women who knocked at the front door seeking the young man. The young man’s response is to wonder why his father did not bother to make the trip with his mother and sister. Riley then comments approvingly on the young man’s “well-knit yet slender frame.” This encounter is followed by a poignant monologue from the mother, in which she indicates that she knew she would ultimately be left alone, even in her closest moments with her son, when he was a baby.
The young man’s seventh monologue, coming halfway through the play, echoes the happiness of the first. He finds the three Withers women seated in a room, smiling at him. He takes a seat and states: “I will never leave it. Oh mother, I have found my home, my family. Little did I ever dream I could know such happiness.” In the speech that follows, the mother proposes forgetting all about the son. She thinks of cursing him and spitting on his letters should they ever come.
Again echoing the pattern of the opening, the young man follows his speech of happiness with a monologue expressing fear and anxiety and asks for his mother’s advice. He recounts the fantastic words of old Mr. Withers, who calls him into his room and warns him that he is in a “disease ridden land.” When the young man looks into the old man’s eyes, he says, “It was like looking into a pit of molten lava.”
The third voice, presumably that of the young man’s father, finally enters, stating that he is not dead, as the mother had written. Then he admits that that is a lie, that he is “as dead as a doornail” and is writing from the grave. After first haranguing the son for wishing him dead, he calls the young man a loving son and tells him to “keep up the good work.”
The young man then speaks, reporting that he has been renamed Bobo and is called that by everyone in the house except the old man, who “will die soon.” The mother then states that the police are looking for the young man, that she believes he is in the hands of underworld figures who are using him as a male prostitute. She insists that he will be found and will be shown no mercy. This threat is followed by the young man’s voice saying that he is coming back, coming to hold his mother in his arms and to clasp his father’s shoulder.
In her final speech, the mother says: “I’ve given you up as a very bad job. Tell me one last thing. Do you think the word love means anything?” In his final speech, the young man says: “I am on my way back to you. . . . What will you say to me?” It is the father, however, who has the last words in the play: “I have so much to say to you. But I am quite dead. What I have to say will never be said.”
Dramatic Devices
Harold Pinter is a master of all four dramatic media: plays for the stage, screen, television, and radio. In one interview, he spoke of the purity he finds in writing for the radio: “It reduces drama to its elemental parts and enforces the sort of restraint, simplicity and economy I strive for anyway.” Family Voices draws on radio’s ability to present sound unencumbered by visual distraction. If these family voices exist only in the young man’s mind, they come to exist in the listener’s mind as well. Inescapably they resonate with, or evoke, each listener’s own “family voices”; thus the radio form itself enhances the voices’ movement toward the archetypal.
Pinter’s characteristic refusal to offer verifiable facts or to issue simple truths further enhances this movement. In Family Voices, the characters are not even called son, mother, and father—although they seem to have this relationship. Instead, Pinter calls them the more indefinite “a young man,” “a woman,” “a man.” The effect of this imprecision, as in all Pinter’s plays, is twofold: It simultaneously increases anxiety and dramatic tension (for even the most fundamental relationships are not known) and allows space for listeners to fill in the gaps with their own truths or interpretations. (The original “platform performance” of Family Voices achieved this imprecision by placing the three actors in cane chairs before a bleak no-background and lighting them so minimally that they appeared to be near-silhouettes on a screen.)
Besides being a medium particularly suited to direct soundings of the subconscious, the radio play, as Martin Esslin has noted, is the form of drama that comes closest to music and thus serves as a showcase for Pinter’s poetic gifts, his acute awareness of the rhythms of words, sounds, and silences. Family Voices represents a particularly rich mix of the feints, lies, circumlocutions, bombast, banality, and beauty which Pinter weaves into a verbal fabric at once comic and menacing, poignant and unforgettable.
The language of Family Voices can be steeped in sexual nuance, as when the young man speaks of his wish to tutor Jane: “When she turns her eyes upon you you see within her eyes, raw, untutored, unexercised but willing, a deep love of learning.” Stilted or clichéd rhetoric often betrays the young man’s precarious emotional state, as in his unconvincing “Little did I ever dream I could know such happiness.” The language can shift, however, to hint at depths of feeling, as in Riley’s progressively qualifying “I could crush a slip of a lad such as you to death, I mean the death that is love, the death I understand love to be.” Perhaps more than any other contemporary playwright, Pinter makes his audience aware of the many variations and rhetorical purposes (often hidden and hostile) of human speech.
Critical Context
Family Voices has been seen by many as a summation of many of the themes explored throughout Harold Pinter’s career. Indeed, L. A. C. Dobrez argues that the play reviews every phase of Pinter’s development, “like a symphonic climax.” Family Voices recalls Pinter’s first play, The Room (pr. 1957, pb. 1960), in which the leading character lives away from her family and is torn by longings for it while clearly fleeing it. The Room even has a character called Riley. Family Voices also contains echoes of another early “room play,” The Birthday Party (pr. 1958, pb. 1959), in which the young man Stanley is cuddled by his landlady, has his parents turned away at the door, and is subjected to the verbal terrorism of Goldberg and McCann.
Also reprised in Family Voices is the Oedipal situation of the radio play A Night Out (pr. 1960), the most representative of Pinter’s realist plays. Similarly, there is the aggressive family environment of The Homecoming (pr., pb. 1965), the work of what Dobrez terms Pinter’s “hard-edge phase.” In The Homecoming, the central character is a woman who escapes a former sterile home life for a presumably more sexually and emotionally fulfilling role in a home with three men (her husband’s father and two brothers). As with The Room, Pinter seems to have reversed the sexes in Family Voices, making his central character a young man who escapes his possessive mother and gruff, absentee father to find a more sexually and emotionally fulfilling role in a home with three women. Finally, in its poetic tones Family Voices resembles Pinter’s memory plays, from the radio play Landscape (pr., pb. 1968) to Old Times (pr., pb. 1971).
Pinter has carved his own place in contemporary drama through his original blend of Theater of the Absurd with unnerving psychological realism, expressed in a language rich in poetic texture. He has found a dramatically interesting way of joining the existential and the empirical. The very title Family Voices suggests the universality of Pinter’s subject matter, and the play raises essential questions regarding dependence and independence, love and estrangement, and individual and family identity. Pinter’s plays continued to raise thought-provoking questions in the late twentieth century, among them Moonlight (pr., pb. 1993), Ashes to Ashes (pb. 1996), and The Dwarfs and Nine RevueSketches (pb. 1999).
Sources for Further Study
Burkman, Katherine H. “Family Voices and the Voice of the Family in Pinter’s Plays.” In Harold Pinter: Critical Approaches, edited by Steven H. Gale. Rutherford, N.J.: Fairleigh Dickinson University Press, 1986.
Diamond, Elin. Pinter’s Comic Play. Lewisburg, Pa.: Bucknell University Press, 1985.
Dobrez, L. A. C., ed. The Existential and Its Exits: Literary and Philosophical Perspectives on the Works of Beckett, Ionesco, Genet, and Pinter. London: Athlone, 1986.
Esslin, Martin. “Harold Pinter’s Work for Radio.” In Harold Pinter: Critical Approaches, edited by Steven H. Gale. Rutherford, N.J.: Fairleigh Dickinson University Press, 1986.
Gordon, Lois. Harold Pinter: A Casebook. New York: Garland, 1990.
Jenkins, Alan. “No Man’s Homecoming.” Times Literary Supplement, March 27, 1981, p. 336.
Merritt, Susan Hollis. Pinter in Play: Critical Strategies and the Plays of Harold Pinter. Durham, N.C.: Duke University Press, 1990.
Morrison, Kristin. “I’ll Probably Call It a Day After This Canter.” In Canters and Chronicles: The Use of Narrative in the Plays of Samuel Beckett and Harold Pinter. Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1983.
Nightingale, Benedict. “Pinter’s New Play Evokes The Homecoming.” New York Times, March 1, 1981, p. D8.
Peacock, D. Keith. Harold Pinter and the New British Theatre. Westport, Conn.: Greenwood Press, 1997.
Zeifman, Hersh. “Ghost Trio: Pinter’s Family Voices.” Modern Drama 27 (December, 1984): 486-493.