Work and life balance

Work-life balance is a way of living that allows individuals to both achieve work-related goals and enjoy free time over the course of their working lives. As adults strive to succeed, they often feel they must put their careers first, to the detriment of relationships and their own happiness. While it is unrealistic to expect that work-life balance be equal in hours spent at work and at play, setting priorities and avoiding fruitless drains on free time help to ensure a healthy balance.

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Overview

The hours and energy spent on working might be productive and profitable, but without allowing time for exercise, relaxation, and fun, people can burn out from stress and exhaustion. When striving to achieve a balance between employment responsibilities and leisure, most people cite a lack of time to do both effectively. Work responsibilities tend to spill over into after-hours time, especially when technology encourages a blurring of the boundary between the two. That leaves less free time and a lack of full attention to family, friends, hobbies, and relaxation. Experts suggest that people should generally try to find a comfortable balance between time devoted to work and time devoted to other aspects of life.

Schedule Free Time

As has long been the case, all work and no play make a person not only dull, but also unhappy. Many time-management experts say that the first step to successfully developing a work-life balance can be to schedule leisure time in the same way that work time is planned. Successful time managers often block out specific periods for family dinners, children's activities, and date nights the same way that they schedule meetings and deadlines at the office. Those who work odd shifts can learn to prioritize leisure activities and add them to their calendars along with medical appointments and teacher conferences. Of course, people's preferences for managing free time can vary considerably. Some people may benefit mentally from completely unstructured time to relax or embrace spontaneity rather than taking up a strict structure for nonworking hours. The main point is to ensure one has enough time to spend doing things that maintain happiness and healthiness.

To make the most of leisure time, work-related phone calls and electronic messages should be postponed until work hours unless an employee is paid to be on call. Similarly, overtime should not be allowed to snowball into regular 70-hour work weeks, even when some jobs require longer hours occasionally to meet deadlines or to complete special reports. Some companies have recognized the importance of a work-life balance for their employees, and their administrators support flexible hours, working from home, a focus on quality rather than quantity, a respectful atmosphere, and openness to new ideas. Researchers have shown evidence that organizational efforts to provide employees with tools to help manage their work-life balance tend to improve job satisfaction significantly.

Other experts suggest that one of the easiest ways to increase leisure time is to stop wasting it. Many people spend hours mindlessly watching television shows they do not like or paging through online content in which they have little interest. They allow other people to trap them in long, pointless conversations or in listening to their complaints. Meanwhile, although household chores, shopping, and running errands are not necessarily time-wasters, they can also detract from leisure time. Many experts recommend strategies such as setting aside a defined times for chores to avoid procrastination and preserve some amount of true free time.

Working Parents

Traditionally, work-life balance was often thought of as a working mothers' issue. However, modern perspectives have broadened considerably. An in-depth study by Pew Research Center published in 2013 showed that 56 percent of American working mothers said establishing a balance between work and personal life was difficult, while 50 percent of working fathers said it was difficult. Overall, 46 percent of fathers felt they did not spend enough time with their children, as did 23 percent of mothers. Another Pew survey published in 2019 found similar results even as the percentage of mothers working full-time continued to increase. For example, it found that 53 percent of mothers and 51 percent of fathers felt that holding a job made it harder to be a good parent. The conflicting responsibilities of home and work affect everyone to some degree, and more flexible schedules benefit most families, especially those with young children.

Balance and Health

A lack of recreation and family time creates stress and guilt and can contribute to both physical and mental health problems. When time runs short and choices must be made, many people find themselves skipping their own or their children's activities to spend time on job-related concerns. They break promises to their spouse and disappoint their children and, feeling pulled in several directions at once, end up burdened with guilt. Depending on the individual, long-term stress can be expressed through a variety of emotional symptoms, including fatigue, withdrawal, depression, irritability, and anger.

Perhaps surprisingly in a society already strapped for time, studies have shown that people who added regular exercise to their schedules improved their ability to enjoy time at work and home. Although it consumed some leisure hours each week, exercise reduced stress and enabled the individuals to better focus on tasks and reduce the amount of time they spent procrastinating. They felt more confident in tackling projects and more in control of their time, resulting in a state psychologists call high self-efficacy. Sufficient sleep and a healthy diet also contribute to work-life balance by ensuring sufficient energy and fostering a more positive attitude.

One approach to a successful transition between home and work is to use commuting time to adjust from one domain to the other. Whether driving or riding a train or bus, the time spent on the road can help individuals relax and prepare for the next activity. For example, on the way to work a manager might mentally review the previous day's accomplishments and the upcoming morning's schedule. On the trip home, they could consider which chores need to be completed on arrival and plan a family activity for after dinner. Listening to music, reading, or going to the gym can also help individuals relax and switch roles.

The global coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) pandemic that disrupted societies around the world beginning in 2020 helped draw fresh attention to the issue of work-life balance and its connections to health. One major impact was that many organizations were forced to embrace a higher degree of remote work (enabled by the many technological advances of the internet age). For some workers, this provided clear benefits to successful work-life balance, such as more time at home and more flexible hours. However, negative implications emerged as well. Many workers reported difficulty maintaining separation between work time and leisure time as the boundaries between the home and the workplace blurred.

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